I realized yesterday that I actually prefer not to work one-on-one with people. I tense up in a situation where I am expected to operate in a collaborative way, or when something is expected of me. That’s because I know that my viewpoint is going to be regarded as being outside of the box.
On the other land, I love interacting with in a playful, lighthearted manner. That’s fun for me. It’s no trouble.
For me it’s best to make suggestions, not try to teach or convince. So my ‘What I get from so-and-so’ is the correct approach for me.